About ME

(A continuous work in progress)
last update: Jun 2015

2 random facts about yourself.
       I HATE the word "Sphere".  It gives me the heeby-jeebies.
       I've broken my leg, arm, ankle, and a tooth
Legitimate fears you have.
       Roller-coasters
       Basements
       Being forgotten
       Snakes and spiders
       Getting injured/hurt (broken bones, cuts)
       Not having something to work towards
What do you think people misunderstand most about you?
They think they can figure me out really quickly, but there is so much under the surface that I don't know how to express.  Because I have a hard time letting myself be vulnerable, I've got many facets and will adapt as I feel comfortable.
Describe 3 weaknesses you have.
        Movies - I'll drop anything to watch a good movie (especially with friends)
        Pizza or Peanut Butter - great bribery
        I put myself and my opinions to the side to make sure others are happy
What are the 5 things that make you most happy right now?
       Spending down-time with close friends/family
       Reading for fun
       Movies while curled up on my bed
       Feeling that someone trusts me enough to open up to me
       Realizing that I've graduated from college and have a big-kid job
What is the hardest thing you have ever experienced?
        A mission
What is your favorite genre of books/movies?
       Books - mystery and fairytales
       Movies - Musicals, Clean comedies 
Describe your pet peeves.
       When someone jiggles/bounces their leg and it shakes me
       The word SPHERE
       People dragging/scuffing their feet as they walk
       Being late
       When someone doesn't comprehend hints that it's time to leave or go away
       Someone who doesn't do what they say
List your top 5 hobbies and why you love them.
        Spending time with my best friends - in person and video chat.
        Movies - I can either be totally engaged and think along with the characters, or I can switch off and just enjoy.  No pressure!
       Projects/Crafts - creating something unique has always been something I enjoy
       Organizing - I love seeing the success of progress and realizing that I'm making something look great for a long time - not just a cosmetic change.
       Spontaneous adventures    
Describe a typical day in your current life.
        Hit snooze at least twice * get dressed * work * me-time * work on a fun project * gym* make food* watch a movie/friend time * bed
What are your 3 greatest accomplishments?
        Actually realizing that it's okay to be me and to vulnerable by telling someone how I really feel/think/am -- Confidence central!!
        Serving an honorable mission...and having fun while doing so.
        Graduating from College with a double-major
List 6 things you would tell your 16 year-old self, if you could.
       Don't worry about the future, it'll come anyways.
       Don't stress about finding the right group in High School...you'll leave and find better friends.
       Guys are still confusing...just on a deeper level
       You're on the right track, don't panic.
       Your plans are great, but Heavenly Father has got other ones.
       You'll have more confidence soon
Describe 5 strengths you have.
        Artsy/Crafty
        Making sure others are taken care of, feel valued, and are happy
        Easy to make friends
        Organizing/arranging 
        Music - listening and playing
What is your favorite part of your personality?  
        My ability to relate to and adapt to most people and situations.
If you could have one superpower, what would it be and what would you do with it first?
       Reading people's minds/thoughts/feelings - I would go up to a group of guys and pick their brain to figure out how they work/think  
What is the thing you most wish you were great at?
        Creating recipes and patterns
What has been the most difficult thing you have had to forgive?
       Things people have done to me in the past
If you could live anywhere, where would it be and why?
        India - the colors are fantastic, the food is spicy, and the culture has always fascinated me.  I'm not so sure about cheesy Bollywood though.What is your dream job, and why?
       Translating and living in a foreign country...and being able to travel all over
Describe your family dynamic as a child vs your family dynamic now.
      I am stubborn and now understand that they were right, some of the time.  We can talk about anything, though not for very long.  We joke and laugh and tease.  They trust me and I maintain my independence.  Both then and now - - We love each other a lot and spend a lot of time together.  As kids, we didn't get along very much and I was more outspoken about my displeasure with things.  That often caused problems for me, as I would always argue to prove I was right.  I didn't want to be tied down; I wanted independence.  My parents had rules and limits, but they let us choose.  We work together as a family and always had a lot of fun.  
List people who have influenced you.
       Gpa & Gma Hailes, Mom, Dad, Baby Brother, Little One, Dietzi Dietz, Alder, Mrs Hollen, Mrs Beck, Mrs Shadler, Sarah
Describe 2 significant memories from your childhood.
        Living in Europe - most of that time has shaped who I am today.  I recognize the importance of making sure everyone feels included.  I love other cultures, speak German, know what it's like to be a minority, learned the value of a tight-knit community.
        My baptism day - the feelings are a little fuzzy, but I remember exactly how everything happened and what everything/everyone looked like/did.